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小花妈妈日记（五十六）
作者:小花 日期:2013-05-14
这个月过的非常忙，也有点累，除了工作，家庭，淘宝的事情外还抽空参加了自游行天下和深圳读书会组织的旅行分享会。和大勇熬了三个晚上准备PPT，真的希望带给大家的不只是美好的图片和有趣的故事，而重要的是一种生活的态度。要知道走在旅行路上的时间对比起一辈子的时间分母来说实在是太少太少了，人总不能活在轰轰烈烈中，如果平淡的生活也能过出滋味来，那才是一种值得修炼的强大的内心。
活动当天其实特想把可言带去，可言有时候在舞台上总有些许羞涩，有时候无法面对自己的失误。在我上场之前，我突然特别特别理解可言，有时候面对观众时的紧张，并不是旁人的鼓励就能够完全消除的，一定要自己克服内心的恐惧，甚至要强迫一下自己，迈上舞台。我不想给可言树立一个榜样的作用，我只想让可言知道妈妈和她一样也有软弱，迟疑，害怕的时候，总要自己去面对。在表达的过程中打磕巴，说错了也没有关系，冷静的去纠正一下，观众们都是很通情达理的。后来思前想后觉得场面太大，怕可言接受不了，还是没有带她去。不过回来给她看了活动的照片，也和她分享了很多自己的情绪。
长大的话题
长大的话题在这个月非常热门儿。独自开车带着可言出去玩，一边听歌一边聊天，她突然说：妈妈，我还没有想好以后要生几个宝宝。听到这一句，差点脚下来个急刹车，脑子里面的第一个回答是让可言不要想这个问题，多想想好好学习布拉布拉，后来觉得自己说教的回答很是傻，于是回答：噢。可言，这是一个好问题，是要仔细想想，那你想好了告诉妈妈，记得告诉我原因哦。于是这个复杂的问题抛回给了这个小人儿。接着是1分钟左右的安静，我估计此时小家伙的脑袋里肯定特混乱，特纠结，特迷惑。我假装心不在焉，听歌什么的，一句话也没问。突然可言说：妈妈，我想好了，我以后就和你一样生一个宝宝，生太多真累啊。喔，对，妈妈说过要先找到自己的王子。我惊讶的要命，完全不敢接话，回答一句“噢”，这个话题over。
睡觉的时候，可言总会和妈妈说一些悄悄话，这段时间说的最多的是：妈妈，我要永远和你在一起。怪我太较真，其实小朋友表达的“永远”二字只不过是一种爱的意思。但是我这个实诚人回答：噢，好的，但是，等可言18岁就要独立啦，就要离开爸爸妈妈寻找自己的生活。我说出来就觉得自己好傻。后果很严重，可言为了这个18岁的问题，想起来就会眼睛红红的，甚至掉几个小金豆。她说我不要长大，就算长大了18岁也不要离开爸爸妈妈。对于可言的哭，我已经了如指掌，一般身体上的疼痛就哇哇大哭，心灵上的伤心就是默默的啜泣。抱着可言一抖一抖的小肩膀，我真是恨不得删两自己大嘴巴，跟处女座的女娃娃说话不能这么较真，你不知道哇。。。。。。
可言和自己的朋友
可言有很多很多小朋友，堪称发小的要数牛家二姐妹，牛二宝比可言小整整一个月，她们两个在肚子里可能就认识了。因为我和牛妈在怀孕的时候就经常在一起觅食。月子里，牛妈挺个大肚子来看我，已经滚出来的可言就看着牛妈的大肚子发呆，估计脑子是想：你啥时候出来啊。后来牛二宝也滚出来了，两人终于见面了，此后一发不可收拾。从挂屁帘儿的小宝宝到现在活蹦乱跳的小伙伴已经建立了4年半的友谊。
牛大宝比可言和牛二宝两岁多，打心眼里疼爱自己的妹妹，不过呆的久了总会有审美疲劳，打架吵架时常会发生，牛妈也因此走上了爆妈的道路，加入可言以后，三角关系果然更加稳定，无论那两方发生冲突，总会有第三个过来调节。有一天，不经意的听到，7岁的牛大宝对可言说：可言，以后我长大了约你喝咖啡。可言道：好的，哪里喝？牛大宝说：我知道购物公园有个咖啡店。可言道：行。到时候你给我打电话。看来我和牛妈的友谊是十几年，她们的友谊会是几十年。
再说兴趣班
有一个周五的早晨，可言起床的时候感慨到，太好了，上完今天的幼儿园，又到周六啦，一个星期就只有一天可以玩啊。我想小屁孩儿到哪里不都是玩啊。于是问：周日还有一天啊。可言答：周日要画画啊。我以为参加兴趣班给她造成了负担，于是找了一个她比较清醒的时间又提起了这个话题，如果她真的不愿意学画画，跳芭蕾舞，那我们下学期可以不报名了。可言立刻又表达了反对的情绪。她又舍不得她的那些好朋友。后来问清楚了，她原来是想表达周六是爸爸妈妈全天陪伴她的时光，就算三个人在家里猫一天，她也非常享受。
说起这个兴趣班，我觉得一个星期的两堂课还是比较合理的。画画方面目前对渐变色非常感兴趣，无论画什么都喜欢把同一个色系从淡到深进行线条和色块放在一起，画的时候也非常的有耐心，有时候半个小时，我都没听到她的声音，到房间里一看，还在自己琢磨颜色。
跳舞方面热情挺高的，除了芭蕾舞班，在幼儿园也是舞蹈队的小队员。当妈的我其实最开始是想：多多运动身体好，最好是在幼儿园把电量用完，回家就可以早早睡觉罗。妈妈的小心眼是不是有点坏。虽然可言的电量依然很惊人，妈妈的私心没有得逞，但是跳舞对她的帮助也是很大的。比如记动作一定要精力很集中，特别是站在第一排的小朋友，总要承受一定的压力，因为自己前面都是观众了，没有人可以参考，而且后面的小朋友都要跟着她，所以精力要更加集中才行。
集体的舞蹈一定要讲究合作，一个人没有跳好，大家都要重来，而且从中也学会了一颗包容的心。比如下课她跟我唠叨哪个小朋友没有跳好，老师让她们重来了好几次。我总是跟她讲老师在批评小同学的时候，你不要再去埋怨她了，可言说她知道。她就陪着小同学一遍一遍的跳。这些学到的东西跟舞蹈本身其实没什么关系，但是我却特别看重。反而对于能不能下腰，能不能劈叉，倒不是很强求。
爸爸的一支笔
上次讲到幼儿园的老师使用了积分规则，20对小红花可以换一支笔。可言的第一支笔换给了我。爸爸随口说了一句：可言，那爸爸的呢。我以为她并不在乎，没想到小家伙一直记在心里面，对交作业的事情也开始积极起来。这个月终于又积满了20朵花给爸爸也换了一支圆珠笔，巴巴儿的等着爸爸下班，看到爸爸收到小礼物那叫一个高兴的哟。父女两的情感也是很难捉摸的，吵架的时候两个人气鼓鼓的，要好的时候真是不是一般的好。
可言语录
1
妈妈你为什么老是生我的气，我原来心里有个爱心的，现在都成臭粑粑了。
妈妈你为什么老是生我的气，我原来心里有个爱心的，现在都成臭粑粑了。
2
爸爸： 可言，画画的时候你和小同学聊什么呢？那么开心。
可言： 不告诉你，反正是你最喜欢听的话。
爸爸： 告诉我，告诉我。
可言： 小同学说你很帅啦。
爸爸： 你怎么知道我喜欢听这话
。
。可言： 我是你的宝啊
3
可言：妈妈，我是少女么？
可言：妈妈，我是少女么？
妈妈：不是，你只能算儿童，一个小姑娘。
可言：妈妈，那你是少女么？
妈妈：（闺女周围好多人的好不好）。也不是，我算少妇。
可言：什么叫少妇？
妈妈：（咋这么多问题聂）
4
可言：妈妈，为什么我做错了，你要笑？
可言：妈妈，为什么我做错了，你要笑？
妈妈：啊，我没笑啊。
可言：我刚才听到了，你就是在笑。
妈妈：（看到可言那又认真又生气的样子我真没忍住），笑了。
可言：你看，你就笑了，你还不承认，你是个大忽悠。
妈妈：（我冤死了，我开始真没笑，是可言她逼我笑的）。
给大勇看到了，我真是跳进黄河也洗不清了。
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